| March 6, 2006
YES, YOUTH SPORTS ARE FOR
ALL KIDS!
It’s that time of year again where Spring
is just around the corner. Soon the sounds
of the baseball and softball diamonds will
be soaring through many neighborhoods across
the country. Youngsters will be taking out
their bats and gloves to once again take part
in America’s favorite pastime.
There are many times I’ve heard parents say
that their child isn’t skilled or coordinated
enough to play youth sports. Therefore, they
never encourage him/her to join a team.
While all parents want their kids to be successful,
most people differ on what constitutes being
a success. In school, in sports and in life,
each of us can be a huge success if we are
working with the right definition.
Most people think success is getting an “A”
on a test, coaching a championship team or
hitting a homerun. When actually, success
is the peace of mind that you experience when
you know you’ve given your total effort to
do the best of which you are capable. If we
measure success only against the “best skilled”,
then we are all destined to fail.
Above all, the motivating factor for most
children who enter an organized youth sports
program is their desire to have fun. With
a supportive attitude from their parents and
a fundamental understanding of the game learned
from their coaches; each will come away from
their baseball or softball experience with
a positive feeling. In Babe Ruth League, Inc.,
we educate our coaches to teach the basics
of the game with the primary emphasis being
placed on a fun time for all.
In addition to having a fun and positive experience,
all children deserve a head start on a lifetime
of physical fitness to ensure a long and healthy
life. As parents, we can help our kids feel
less guilty about sports failures and teach
them to learn to enjoy sports – even if they
are not the athletically elite. All
children deserve to reap the many
benefits of playing youth sports such as:
- Friendship - Developing a mutual respect
and self esteem from being and having
friends.
- Self-Control – Emotional maturity allows
for discipline and consistency in key
activities.
- Confidence – Learning to believe in
yourself, while others learn to believe
in you.
- Alertness – Being alert is important
to personal achievement because it allows
us to see weakness, learn and improve.
- Initiative – Helping to alleviate the
fear of failure by trying your best and
taking the action to make things happen.
- Conditioning – Physical, emotional and
personal moralities learned from making
your best effort.
- Sportsmanship – While every child may
not ever be a superstar, they can be the
team’s epitome of a good sport, which
is an important role for any young athlete
to play.
- Teamwork – Kids learn that when a team
accomplishes a goal – scoring a run, winning
a game, etc., the victory goes to the
entire team – it is not just attributed
to individual glory.
- Life Lessons – Playing youth baseball
or softball teaches a child self-discipline.
They learn how to work together, to sacrifice
for the good of the team, to set personal
goals, to enjoy winning humbly and to
handle defeat gracefully.
- Fun – This sums up the total experience.
Knowing you have done your best and have
made a difference. Creating friendships
and magical memories that will last a
lifetime.
As you can see, success
for our kids in youth sports is reaching
that goal which is a state of “peace of
mind” that is a direct result of self satisfaction
in knowing they gave their best effort to
become the best of which they are capable.
Again, not every player (in fact most players)
will not be the best in the league or even
the best on their team. But if they give
it their best – playing and practicing with
enthusiasm – they will experience a positive
outcome regardless of whether they win or
lose a game or how much they contributed.
Sports and perfection do not go hand in
hand. In baseball, failure is the expected
norm – everybody swings and misses. Even
our major-league superstars walk in runs
and make errors almost every game. Even
Babe Ruth himself struck out at the plate
a record number of times.
As parents, it is important we encourage
our children to continue to try new things
and to stress that perfection isn’t the
“do all and end all” to success. Children
need diversity and motivation to develop
character traits that will help them become
better doctors…or lawyers…or teachers…or
plumbers…and yes, maybe even a professional
baseball or softball player…especially when
all of the little boy and girl games are
over.
Yes, youth sports are for all kids! Don’t
let your child miss out on the many positive
benefits of playing youth sports. With your
support and encouragement, they can enjoy
one of the most thrilling aspects of childhood.
In the end, your child will develop a positive
self image while learning that mistakes
are an important part of the overall learning
process. No matter what the outcome, your
child will feel like a winner!
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